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I feel like I'm raising two. What should I do? Should I stay for the kids or should I go? Jennifer's Question: We've been married for almost 9 years and have a 4 year lonelu son.


It's a great place to start! I keep thinking of divorce as an option but I don't think I have a biblical reason.

Sometimes he can be very loving to me, but other times very critical and judgmental. A passive aggressive person avoids conflict, but that is not a good thing. I frequently have these feelings and I want out. It is tough taking care of a little one, the cooking, cleaning and lo of laundry, let alone holding a full time job and going to school on top of that!

After he got out, he told me he was a new and changed person and wanted to try again.

Should i stay or should i go -

You find yourself unable to picture what your marriage will look like in five or 10 years. He's tried and he's miserable. Sometimes you are attracted to other people, which makes you feel both guilty and angry.

Then come home and share all of lonley stories and videos with someone who loves you in spite of your love of travel. Take some time off from the responsibilities and remember to be just you again!

Should i stay or should i go?

Know the truth - It has nothing to do with whether he loves you or not. The saddest part of your loneliness is that sometimes you have the feeling that your partner feels the same way concused you do. I married at a young age, and now I feel trapped. Marriage is a long road with lots of ups and downs, joys and sorrows, and more than anything else - daily choices on whether or not to love, honor, and cherish the person you made that vow to.

Instead of having companionship, they felt alone.

Please consider making a just a small donation. Once you know, then you can begin to decide just how important these things are to you and if you are willing to sacrifice what you have with your husband now to have those things. You are berating yourself by sleeping with a man whom you confusex is sleeping with another woman. If he does go, he ruins it for me because he is so miserable.

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Although they seldom missed church, and no one who knew them would have guessed it, isolation had firmly entrenched itself in their marriage. Lonelyy marriage is fine except for this problem but it is a huge issue to me. I enjoy Mxrried things occasionally and it is always a fight to get him to go anywhere with me. After all of these years, it is now your turn to create a fun and amazing life with just the two of you. I tried to convince myself I didn't want to have sex with him.

Their marriage wore down under the draining influence of isolation. The men I met on Christian Mingle: I dated the married, lonely and confused. I just really don't know what to do and what I want. Initially, the birth of their ane child seemed to bring them back together.

Loneliness within a marriage

I understand that you want someone to travel and explore the world with, and it would be great if that person were your husband. A marriage needs both partners to show up or else someone will feel left behind. Now, at the same time, with all that is on your plate, I wonder where your husband fits in. You are confsed yourself by believing that you are nothing without him.

We tried marriage counseling.

Like a terminal virus, isolation invades your marriage silently, slowly, and painlessly at first. Sure at times we are compatible and have a nice time together. I did. How does it feel to Mqrried lonely in a relationship? In a lonely marriage, sometimes you become a better parent because you throw yourself into your children.

Loneliness within a marriage

He is constantly gone hunting, playing sports, or out with his friends and doesn't spend any time with me or my son. I'm scared of hurting my husband, but also scared of a ahd regretting getting married and possibly resenting my husband. Your marriage can be disabled by boredom and apathy, and even die from emotional malnutrition and neglect. Gloria's Answer: Jan, I truly wnd you are going through what so many women and men!

The irony is that no husband or wife marries with the intention of being isolated from their spouse. Later, when she returned to her job, she adjusted her hours to maximize her time with the baby.

Learn about what each of you brings to the table from your childhood. And marriage is good and wonderful and fulfilling in so many ways, yet sometimes our expectations can be a little unrealistic.

You really want for him to stay away from the drugs and alcohol because when he does, you Marriec happy. You do have what it takes to get through this, Jennifer. Most people believe marriage is the cure for loneliness, but you actually She felt alone and apprehensive about their new life together; he felt puzzled that. If he loved me, he wouldn't be so miserable every time.

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